Seems like I judged Mr. Swing too quickly. I saw him yesterday because I was helping him move some stuff with my truck, and he bought me lunch after!
Considering the fact that we hadn’t talked in a while, and that he texted me out of the blue for a “favor”, I wasn’t expecting much.
But there he goes and surprises me!
It really did feel like a spontaneous date. He was really listening and interested in what I had to say. He asked me how my week was, and other questions about myself. When I left I said, “See you later”. He responded me, “When am I going to see you again?” He mentioned that he noticed I hadn’t been going to the most recent swing dancing events, and that it’d be nice to see me out sometime. Later when we were texting he said that lunch was fun and that we should do it again sometime.
Slow and steady wins the race.
Ask and you shall receive.
Good things come to those who wait!
I guess there is an art to playing “hard to get”. Before when I was making myself available for him, he could care less. Now that he’s not seeing me as often, he wants to see me more!
Crazy how that works.
So I’ll continue to play the role of a cool cucumber and see where that goes.
Readers, do you really believe that men love the chase? Or is that all a load of phooey? Share your thoughts and experiences below 🙂