No one wants someone who needs them. I wrote a post about this a while back, and now I’m realizing it more than ever. However, I’m at the opposite end of the spectrum now. In the past situation, my ex was way too needy. Now I’m in this “casual dating” relationship with Mr. Swing and realized I needed to pull back. Only when I pulled back did he come chasing after me.
So yes, sometimes your own words can come and bite you in the ass.
When it comes down to it, people are attracted to other people who are interesting and have their own hobbies. Don’t make your hobby stalking their Facebook page.
Only when we are stable and confident in ourselves can we even consider being with someone else.
One of my friends gave me a really good piece of advice the other day after I told her about our latest lunch date. She told me this: “Just keep doing you”.
And I plan to.
Readers, do you have any stories of self-discovery? Please share below 🙂